Okay, let's be very honest here. Society today is very harsh, especially when they expect a lot from a person. Sometimes more than they can humanly keep up unless you have really awesome talents.
The fact is, that we are all human beings and we are prone to make many mistakes throughout our entire life time. That's how God made us, human beings withe flaws. Some of us catches on to things quick, some takes a long while to do so. But what matters is that you try your very best.
As long as you do not GIVE UP in life, no matter how much you fail, if you keep standing up to try again and learn from your mistakes, eventually you will reach your goals!
But unfortunately, society has very little room for failure because for many businesses, it can jeopardize their company if many mistakes occurs.
People gets stress out from their schools, jobs, church, etc. in fear that if they make a small mistake, you will get severely punished....
Take example of the regime in North Korea...
The North Korea government are extremely strict with their rules and regulation, plus EVERYTHING there is enforced! In this country, everyone lives in fear because if they make one simple mistake, they may literally be sent to a labor camp to be beaten, tortured and make them starve to death.
You have no freedom in North Korea whatsoever... there is no room for mistake in this country. Its a full on dictatorship and it's really sad that motivating messages such as this will almost never be exposed to the poor citizens living there.
But fortenately for most of us, we have the choice to follow our dreams and break the chains which is the harsh reality of society looking bad at you if you make a mistake or do something that is out of the norm...
If you have a goal in mind that you are seriously trying to achieve, remember that the only way to guarantee failure is to STOP TRYING and GIVING UP!
Many may call you a failure when you make the same mistake a handful of times... but they fail to realize the reason behind so many failures so they just tell them to give up, you tried too many times.
But if you truly believe in God that you can achieve something, you may have to fail MANY times in order to reach success in the long run.
Like in Cryptocurrency, if you are holding coins that you believe wholeheartely about the technology and potential behind it, even if the values of the coins goes down... if you hold on to the coins and wait till the prices goes back up, you did not lose any money. YOU ONLY LOSE MONEY IF YOU SELL LOW AND BUY HIGH! SO BUY LOW AND SELL HIGH TO DO BETTER! :)
Same with STEEMIT, you fail to get good payment after many, many posts and months doing it? You believe in it... KEEP GOING, try many different things and eventually you will find a niche that you can profit off from in the long hold.
The KEY is patience and motivation! Keep going by doing things to lead to your goals, even if it takes YEARS! Eventually you will reach it! You cannot let society talk down on you for trying many times. Do not listen to them and keep going no matter how difficult this is.
I hope this post serves a value to each of you having a hard time in life and many not understanding your ambition. Please give an upvote if you find this of value. Comment below your thoughts and follow me if you want to read more future blogs from me. God Bless U all!
Right on man! This goes hand in hand with my own post and exactly what we were both discussing earlier. I agree, we all make mistakes in life, and the best thing to do is admit those mistakes and live up to them, rather than run and hide from them.
Its also very true that society is very demanding of us all, and often it feels as if there is no room for mistakes at all; just as you noted in the case of North Korea. A very harsh reality indeed. And, this all goes back to what we discussed earlier regarding how others, just like ourselves, often face similar painful challenges in life as we do, and we must consider them as much as we do ourselves.
Those societal demands you talked about really touched home. I've worked for some businesses where no matter what I did nothing was ever good enough, while others cherished the work I did and rewarded me for it. Unfortunately, the world isn't always forgiving, nor always grateful for our efforts. In the end, we're all only human though, and no doubt we cannot be perfect all the time, as perfection literally does not exist.
Yup! The thing is that no one is perfect but let many people in society wants perfection from us which is horrible because those are unrealistic expectation. The best thing to do there is to take toxic people that does not care for you or appreciate your efforts out of your life and only have people in your life who understands you, supports you and appreciate the effort you are doing for others.
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Totally agree! Toxic people will just continuously drag us down if we let them. Those unrealistic expectations are a very real thing too. As I mentioned, I had employers like that off and on over the years, where there was often a boss who never thanked anyone for anything and always complained no matter how hard we all tried. I would always end up quitting and telling them, fine do it yourself! The funny thing was, despite all their whining, they would always call me a few days later begging me to come back, and the answer was always no.
Respect is a 2 way street, and some people just don't learn I guess. I don't have Discord, but I may set up an account up there when I can get a chance. Right now I manage over 100 social media accounts, so I'm kind of overloaded with too much to handle right now.
I built up a number of brands on social media over the years, which sadly have never benefited me financially, nor the people who work to death to help me manage them. I'm working to try and turn things around now. I'm going to launch a social media management/brand building service. I've built so much stuff up on Google+ over the years I know how to grow anything there. But economical conditions are a problem, no one wants to invest right now, only in financial markets.
Thank you @denoxblogger. A very motivational article and it sure is true. Keep on keeping on no matter what :)
Thanks! I will not give up and keep going. Even if some days I am unable to post anything :)
Absolutely! We are blessed to live in free countries. And yes, as for cryptocurrencies, hodl all the way! :)
Yeah! I am glad we have a lot of things in common, Jessica! :)
Thanks for the motivation in this post! We all need encouragement from time to time...especially in business 'cause it's super difficult! Have you achieved something by not giving up? And, off topic, but do you only invest in Litecoin?
I would say that yes, I achieved a few things not giving up because if I gave up, I would have not gotten any opportunities or even take them like I do today.^^ And not only do I invest on Litecoin, but I also invest on Vertcoin, Verge, Monero, Ethereum, Bitcoin, Ripple, Cardano, Dogecoin and of course Steem! :)
Totally agree with you, it's all about the mindset and not being attached to the money you risk in crypto :)
True because I only put money that I am really willing to afford to lose.^^
nice post, "sometimes the absence of the light is a necessary part"..
May I ask what you mean by that quote exactly? lol
lol i think it has the same means with this picture
Ahh yeah, understood now! Its true^^
Great words @denoxblogger. I can see you are very motivated and that this post let us feel the passion for writing and for what you're doing now. Congrats!! =D
No problem! I am glad it helped you! If you can resteem this post so other people you know can read it, i would appreciate it!
Resteemed!!! =D
Thanks a lot! :)
Always like hearing such things from you it gives me an even greater resolve to keep pushing forward myself and not give up because I
ll be honest there are some days where I get down in all this and feel like never gonna make any progress but I cant stop because if I do then really would have failed. Effort, time and patience I must have.Yeah, even if it takes a long time, even YEARS! You keep going and do not stop for nothing until your goals reached! :)