It seems like every boss I have ever had has exerted this authoritarian rule over my life. Why is it that some humans think they are better then others? This is life I suppose. One boss I am dealing with seems to like to scream and belittle me when she thinks I do something wrong. This has happened a few times, and its really getting old. She plays a nice roll in front of others but then exerts this "you will do this" mentality all the time. It seems like everytime I turn around she is there. Getting tired. I am really considering taking my own advise and quiting my job. Life really is to short to be living under an oppression. Looking to take the "leap of faith" soon. I just hope I have the courage to follow through.
Living overseas doesn't help matters either. Raising 3 children in a culture that is not their own, learning a new language, customs, etc. I sure would like to be living back in the States. I think what is really going on is that the stress load is just to great for me here. A boss that hovers over me sure doesn't help matters.
What are your thoughts? Does anyone have a Boss that they just are having problems with? Good Luck and Hang in their STEEMIANS. Cheers.
Thank heavens for Steemit and Crypto Currency. Looking to the future.
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A boss is not always a leader :)
Thanks for posting!
I agree. Thanks for the reply.
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Its the same story for most of us. thats why i quit the corporate life to become an entrepreneur. I am folllwing you and will upvote your posts. please support me as well
I appreciate the reply. I am now following your blog as well. Good luck to you. Looks like you made the huge step of faith and I am sure it will be rewarded. Cheers.
Thanks for following bro. 6 years back I had started a network marketing business and that gave me the confidence to quit my corporate job. And this years I diversified into cryptocurrency mining, investment and trading. Both have been interesting journeys and I am really enjoying the ride. Best wishes to you as well.
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I'll definitely keep in touch. Sounds like you have been successful in your investments for sure. I wish I had gotten in early in cryto's. Cheers.
Thank stinks man, what country are you living in? I also am a dreaded "boss", and it sounds like yours is doing it all wrong. My boss, the CEO of our company had everyone read this book Multipliers.
Life changing, I think you'd get a lot of it as well as soon as you open it. Your boss sounds like the classic "diminisher", ironically she is getting less out of you than she would if she were empowering you.
Just because I "like" my boss and job however doesn't change my goals. Personally I've steadily increased my investments and should be able to make my own big leap by 2020.
Good luck, and I agree life is too short to be miserable for 60% of every waking hour!
Thanks for reply. You nailed it on the head when you said "Classic diminisher, ironically she is getting less out of you then she would if she were empowering you". Absolutely agree.
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Like i always say they can be Managers but, they are not true leaders
1.Leaders create a vision, managers create goals
2.Leaders are change agents, managers maintain the status quo
3.Leaders are unique, managers copy
4.Leaders take risks, managers control risk
5.Leaders are in it for the long haul, managers think short-term
6.Leaders grow personally, managers rely on existing, proven skills
7.Leaders build relationships, managers build systems and processes
Etc..............
Excellent advice. Sounds like my "leader" is a micro-manager.
You read my mind do you? Not all bosses can be a leader, the sad part it , these people somehow managed to become a leader.
I do have this prob currently and translated to a post.
How i wish i do not need to work again
You and me both. I'm always looking for a way out to be own boss of my own business. Thanks for the reply.
A boss is a person you dont want to mess with, or a person you dont want in elevator together.
I also agree. My brother gave me some advice and simply said "buy your time and keep your head down".
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I just might take you up on that. I'm looking at walking out Spring/Summer 2018. Preparing right now. I am now following your blog.
So sorry to hear you're going through this. It really does suck.
Yep, it does. I'm just buying my time. Looking at getting out this next spring. Thanks for the reply.
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Thank you much. Have a great day.
I know how it's like to deal with a difficult boss. I had this boss who kept pushing me and reminding me of dealines... like WTF I'm stressed out about my deadlines already. I don't need anyone reminding me about it and making it worse.
I think the best way to deal with it is to find a creative way to get work done and stay out of their hair as much as possible... or start a business. That's what I did and that helped me a lot. At least I was able to preserve my sanity.
Your situation sounds a lot like mine. Good advice. I try to avoid the "boss" as much as possible and concentrate on work..
Remember, your boss may also have another boss. Surely the boss of your boss is worse boss.
I had to become self employed to get away from that sort of shit. Bosses like the one you describe are insecure with their own abilities so they have this need to belittle the efforts of those they are responsible for, dont let them sense your vulnerabilities, dont rise to the baiting , just reflect on the fact that the problem lies with them.
Your boss sounds like a bully to me, that isnt a good management style imo. Good luck with dealing with this arsehole, treat him/her with the contempt they deserve.