Life is not a bed of roses

Life is full of struggle, don't expect life to give you all that you wish for cause life is not a bed of roses.

In life you struggle for one thing or the other be you the richest man or woman their is something we all struggle with. Struggling is part of life if someone should tell you otherwise, the person don't like you.

Let take bird as a case study

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When a bird is being born or being ashed, it take it some time to fly. They don't just start flying they struggle alot with it and with time they learn how to fly.

What is struggle?

Struggle is an energetic effort to acheive something or to exert strenuous effort against opposition. The key word there is EFFORT be it against an opposition or to acheive something you will put in effort.

Sometimes, when struggling with something you should believe you can actually acheive or over come what it is you struggling with. When People help you to over come your struggle, you might not learn what it is you ought to learn that will be of help to you.

I will tell us a story about the struggle of a butterfly

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A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.
One day a small opening appeared.
He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours
as it struggled to fit its body through the tiny hole.
Then it stopped, as if it couldn’t go further,
So the man decided to help the butterfly.
He took a pair of scissors and
snipped off the remaining bits of cocoon.
The butterfly emerged easily but
it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.
The man continued to watch it,
expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge
and expand enough to support the body,
But it never happened!
In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life
crawling around.
What the man in his kindness
and haste did not understand:
The restricting cocoon and the struggle
required by the butterfly to get through the opening
was a way of forcing the fluid from the body
into the wings so that it would be ready
for flight once that was achieved.

If the man had left the butterfly to over come her obstacle, the butterfly might actually pass through the cacoon and have a story to tell.

Conclusion

Some of us give up easily while some give up with out evening trying or making an effort to achieve something.

See in life if you fall 7times, you should raise 8times. Because it didn't work out today doesn't mean it won't work out tomorrow

So Sometimes struggles are exactly
what we need in our lives.
Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us.
We will not be as strong as we could have been
and we would never fly as high as we ought to.

Life is always going to throw obstacles your way it now left for you to dell with it and not let it get the best of you, cause it only when you over come an obstacle that you move to next level.
And i pray that the obstacle bigger than us will not come our way IJN 🙏🙏🙏.......