I really love how you explain it in a story, I find hard to read long posts, but every single word you said reminded me my mom, and maybe the vision of how I understand life and motherhood. And, of course, things vary and life is different for every single person, but I think the the sentence "just crowbar it", from your situation is the most amazing expression.
It was my pleasure to meet you more closely. You are a "Super Crowbar Mama"!
P.S. I am very interested in permaculture, homestead and aquaponics, and working for your food and house, instead of working a JOB to get money, to pay for your food and your house.
People mentality often gets lost in "design" look and affection for eyes, loosing the whole point of functionality.
Artakush thinks he needs to stop writing, while typing even more, in the bush
@artakush Thank you so much! I struggle with keeping things short since I have a tendency to be a very chatty person (as you've probably noticed in Discord) but sometimes some posts need a little more. I'm so glad you found something to relate to in this post.
Yes, permaculture is amazing! We have hugelkulture beds that I'm hoping will be thriving by next year. My husband does still have to work a job, but fortunately, he's working from home so we are much closer to living life on our terms than most.