The light of the world, we have seen two human beings through the greatness of the Creator. And these two men and women are our mother and father. Before touching the soil after the earthquake we have the same abode of our mother "Our mother". The word of trouble has always seemed strange to him. He gave us unbearable pain for 10 months and 10 days before coming to the earth. But after this feeling, the mother-in-law of this kind of moody smile wiped away all her sorrows.
His child is dear to his own life.
And in the middle of this child he finds the happiness of the world. Little dreams are to be seen with his own son or daughter. Night day, time, things do not understand anything, only a fool, a tears and a mother in their own need. available ? Not sure, because this child is a fragment of his chest. Tried to face hardness in the face, on the other hand, this mother makes this foolish baby bigger.
Just how many winter nights that sleep in the wet season itself and how many nights spend sleep, can only tell this greatness.
There is a human in the world, whose love can never be broken. On the way to life, a child is a child at the moment, the love of the mother's heart and the blessings from the heart. In the selfish world, with time, everyone becomes selfish.
But mother's love is so good that there is no dust of selfishness here. The genuineness of this love bond is to keep her child alive throughout life "mother". How many tears that fall in the eyes of the mother during child's dilemma, only the dynamics know.
This mother is not the child's happiness? The last hour of life also tries to keep the child happy. Almost every mother's last wish is "Before I die, I can see the happiness of my son's daughters.
And we children of this dear mother! How much love is cherished in our hearts for the mother ? Reading, writing, busy life and career will be lost in all this, our love for mom? If we do not get crushed under the yoke of mechanical life, we can not give this time to the person for some time? Mother's mouth can be a leaky smile and a heart-broken prayer can change our frustrating, frivolous life.
The Prophet (s :) said in a hadith,
"The person who looks at the face of the mother or father once glance at the glance. A reward for acceptance of his reward will be given to the Hajj. "
One of the Companions asked, "O Messenger of Allah, if someone looks like this one thousand times?" The Prophet (S :) replied that the reward of one thousand acceptance will be given to him in his name. (Subahan Allah)
So let us try to see how it is possible to smile at mother's face even in a matter of hours.
Whenever we are out of the house, whenever we talk to my mother (after every two or three days), at the end of speaking, I say at least: Mother, I love you so much / Mother, I miss you so much / I remember you very much.
While going home, take a small gift of my mother's choice.
Sometimes we can take a meal of mom's favorite to get out of the house.
If you go away somewhere, only a question can be made to mother, mother, what will you bring for me while coming? The answer will not come. You just got right back.
If you want to go anywhere, you can say, Mother, take you away. Every mother is proud to have her child walk with her.
Many times the mother can talk about any work that is difficult for you. It should not say that "I can not say" or not. Try to do the job. And if it is difficult for you personally, then tell the mother later.
If the mother never complains, many are angry or arrogant. It's absolutely awful. He scolded you, you are your mother, not anyone else. He got a lot of trouble until he broke your temper. But once thought that this non-interested person always pleases you for good.
Many times, we may not agree with our opinions on different issues. It is not right to talk with anger or to think that "this woman does not understand anything" is very good. Rather, it should be assumed that he has come to earth before me and he is our birthright. If we feel that our opinion is right, then the mother should explain the time with the explanation. Of course, he will understand, and if he shows anger he will only be hurt.
We want to be very emotionally submissive. But parents took the decision in the light of their experience. Therefore, in case of any decision, their opinion should be taken seriously. They will be happy.
If the mother is ill, giving her a little more time, she will do more than the medicines in the mental fitness of the mother.
When we can do it, we can serve the mother.
Everyone knows this:
"Mother's Feet Under the Mother's Feet"
If these small tasks can be adjusted regularly, then the smell of Bhubanbhoolan satisfaction on the face of the mother will certainly not make us happy to fulfill our life. And the deep blessings from the mother's heart can make our life a success and happiness.
The most beautiful and fluent relation in this world!