I totally know what you mean. I get a lot more happiness out of something used. I love old furniture as well, that is made of solid wood and I can refinish myself. There's so much fun in the hunt itself when it comes to wanting something and having to hunt rather than just go out and buy it.
My mom would die before wearing used clothes. I am really tall so I don't have a lot of luck but skirts and dresses always work. Once we were downtown together and a woman complimented my dress. I proudly replied "two dollars at Good Will" my mom turned bright red with embarrassment. She was so mad at me "you don't have to tell people". My poor mom got the wrong kid at birth I think. :) I bet that lady ran right over to Good Will (It was a really nice dress probably cost a fortune).
LOL - i have a couple of friends who are like your mom, too!
to me, pre-loved clothes are softer & better & broken in. have you seen some of the fashion "trends" lately? people are paying ridiculous prices for things that are ripped & threadbare. c'mon, y'all, that's just silly.
I've got a few pairs of jeans that should bring in a pretty penny on the designer "farm look" jean market. I'll even throw in some straw! They are a bargain at $600 a pair (lol).
I agree, stuff that's been washed already, you know exactly how it will fit and feel after you've thrown it in the washer.