I caught this on YouTube sooner.

I used to always tell myself that I couldn't afford this or that. Instead, I have goals. So there is a hard drive I need, it's $150, and a book on Amazon, together I'd get free shipping. So right now I don't have the necessary funds for it, so my goal is to gain the funds in time for my birthday, so I can gift it to myself when I can afford it. So it becomes a question of time, of when, and a goal to achieve eventually and look forward to. I can afford it, I can afford it in December.