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RE: The Old Dog Exclaims: "That's Not What I Said at All!"

in #misunderstanding7 years ago

I totally agree (and that is pretty rare) 'the "correct" answer would be what I heard'. I teach business English to Chinese students and I am forever telling them that it is not what you say which ultimately matters, but what the other person hears. The message being - do not assume that the listeners understanding matches your desired message.