It's good that you were honest with the community here at Steemit. I've just joined and am trying to get the hang of things and although what you did was wrong, it shows that Steemit is a decent place where people can be understood and given second chances....unlike in life most of the time. I wish you all the best with your grandfather and your living situation. Been there, done that. If you ever need a friend to chat with about it. I'm here. All the best.