In order to get rid of this weakness we must realize the mass of pain in us what is it? When does it occur or appear? What caused it? That is, we face it, and gradually we get rid of its clutches without resistance, and reduce the ego, we also take into account our self-talk and make him more optimistic and hopeful, life goes on. Why do not we live in less extreme and painful, because in the latter is the choice of man, and we must be convinced that there are circumstances greater than the human, he must recognize and then go on in a way of life with the strength of determination and optimism and positive, much better than crying and disease, we also We abandon the painful past, the fear of the future, dependence on God, and live the moment that God gave us life and living