Ones mind can be the worst enemy. This is the situation I sit in for the last couple of years (it's been so many I stopped counting already) but one of the very big factors is how to mentally accept that the overdue huge capital debts against my name will not be able to be paid back until the best years of my life is over. If you have any tips and advice on how to ride the wave in a scenario like mine it is so appreciated!

Both my husband and i did very well to the point we had everything in excess and budgeting was not a worry.. suddenly thanks to a drought and political nonsense our business literally went from hero to zero in a matter of a few months, thus losing all our vehicles, house etc.. now we going on around 4-5yrs later and we still have all those huge debts haunting us daily. Truth is that we work our rear ends off daily and we make enough to live and provide for our girls but not more than that..

We have both been taken over by the immense feeling of uselessness and incompetence to achieve anything of real value business wise so that we can finally take the leap and move to the coastline (it's been our dream since we met 14yrs ago) we finally realised that the things you think matter in life truly do not if you don't get to experience it along with your kids and loved ones..

Tomorrow is not promised to any of us!