Hi, dear Steemians!
There are many things we interact with on a daily basis and there are many people with whom we share a life full of its own comings and goings.
These things and these people all shape us in ways that we cannot fathom at the moment of every event or occurrence.
Sometimes, it is not about something happening, but more about being exposed to a particular set of ideas or beliefs that influence you on a conscious or subconscious level.
How do we manage such change or influence?
It is absolutely necessary to understand that you are the sum of the five things that you are in contact with on a daily basis.
Your five friends who you see regularly, the five family members that are the closest to you, the five subjects that you are constantly working on or are exposed to…
All of these create who you are, or at least influence you to some degree.
It is also important to recognize the five top things that influence you more than anything else in the world.
A person who has figured out who his five best friends are, what his five best books are, and how his five greatest ideas shape who he is as a person is someone who is ahead of his time.
Who are we without these things?
What is our identity without knowing what our favorite things in life are or why we love the people we love?
Even if you have to make a list, make a note of doing that as soon as possible.
You need to recognize the things closest to you in order to find your identity.
Your purpose in this world can easily be grasped by taking a good and attentive look at everything you have ever done in your life.
This is not about having prejudice towards the people you meet or necessarily ranking their importance.
This is just about figuring your own priorities rather than having to constantly deal with everything without knowing its true value in your life.
This also helps with many insecurities that we might experience on a daily basis.
When you are aware of your own values and priorities, things cannot easily scare you or give you anxiety.
If you do not know the best books you have read, if you do not know the best friends you have made, if you do not know the best ideas you have had, then you are not living the life that you are supposed to live!
Figure out your priorities and give them the recognition and the value that they deserve.
Otherwise, you and your values will be trampled on left and right on a daily basis.
Recognizing the things that make you who you are is a great step towards a larger world in which you can rise and shine and claim your destiny.
A BIG HUG!
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I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
Thanks All of You!!!!
Knowing ourselves helps realize our capabilities and also our limitations so that we can seek to fulfill our potential over time. If we can do so, we can start to build the foundation of adjusting behaviors appropriately towards success.
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Hi @chbartist
On daily basis we do many things things that help us to improve ourself and also plays an important role to shape our life.
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I know this is a crypto world where most of people talk about money. But there are some people like you @chbartist also motivated people about their mindset, success, and progress .I personally read you 1st time and recognized that I need to follow your instructions. Thank you for encourage people. Good luck.
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True. Each of us has things(people) that influence us positively and negatively. These most times have introduced us to certain beliefs that have affected our minds. Thanks for sharing and Stay a blessing:))
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well said @chbartist...Personality development is a long term goal. Thanks for sharing sum of 5 concept that I never thought about it in my life. I will work on it , Hope so it will make a big difference in my life.
You are boss and doing boss things always! Love the article.
Tienes mucha razón, yo siempre digo que las amistades se parecen un poco a nosotros mismos porque hay algo que nos conecta entre sí, esa conexión es lo que hace que seamos mejores amigos. Ese libro que nos gusta es el que conservamos y volvemos a leer cada vez que se puede.
A person needs to periodically clean up his thoughts, decide what is important for you and what helps you to go to your goal
I agree with you!. We should not make choices based on sentiments. Our best five things should follow a specific trend drawn from a plan
Wow. This is great. I guess i need to also look back, the friends i have made, the things i have done. I have to make piroties now
That's true figuring out our priorities is the first most important thing!
Keep inspiring us all.
To know your own priorities, best friends,things that give you motivation, pessimism, in short this exercise mentioned by @chbartist will identify us who we are deep inside , what are our goals if we identify yourself then only we can act accordingly and pave our path for success.Just like we read @chbartist posts to keep motivated we know this kind of stuff motivate us so we come here and share our views .
Thanks & Regards
Many times we do not have a clear definition of what we want to do and we go through life without a fixed direction, this is a waste of time because there is really no definite goal. When we know each other and we are sure of what we want, we can draw real goals and work according to them.
It is true that we are the owners of our destiny but it is also true that constantly, and since we were born, we are exposed to external influences that somehow shape our beliefs and behavior patterns. That's why we must analyze ourselves and not take what other people have said as true, because that may be their truth and not ours.
Greetings my dear @chbartist
I give this advice to everyone: If something you do not like about your life, disrupt everything and start over with what you want and can achieve. The problem is that we do not live to be happy with what is necessary, what we like, but we live to make people believe that we are happy with what others believe is necessary. Fuck everyone! It's your life and you decide who you let go. You can not blame someone else.
@artelita
Yo le doy este consejo a todo el mundo: Si algo no te gusta de tu vida, desbarata todo y vuelve a comenzar con lo que si deseas y puedes alcanzar. El problema es que no vivimos para ser felices con lo necesario, con lo que nos gusta, sino que vivimos para hacer creer que somos felices con lo que otros creen que es necesario. Al carajo todos!!!, es tu vida y tú decides a quien dejas entrar. No puedes echarle la culpa a otro.
@artelita
Hi chbartist its reality that many people who live a simple life they do not know that what purpose for there. They should chose a path and struggle to achieve their goals to become sucessful man in the world.
Love the post, Positive thinking can be said to do wonders, This coming from someone who suffers with a mental illness and various addictions, but perseverance is one of my greatest qualities, or so I've been told. Peace and love
Hello @chbartist and all you friends... When we have to live in the midst of difficult circumstances, such as, for example, those we go through in Venezuela, our personality is exposed to constant attacks and our self-esteem and self-confidence are strongly assailed.
In such situation it is possible that many of the people around us have inadequate attitudes for our own growth. That is why, without the intention of being rude, we must be very clear about who we give access to our intimacy. That's why your advice on prioritizing is very helpful... Five is a very realistic number when it comes to deciding who are those people who are most important to us and, at the same time, most stimulating when it comes to achieving our goals in life.
You are incredible, we would like to become like you someday.
Thank you for sharing with us that splendid assembly .. I would like your support if some day we manage to travel around the world, with your experience we will get very far, go through our blog a hug
If you do not know the best books you have read, if you do not know the best friends you have made, if you do not know the best ideas you have had, then you are not living the life that you are supposed to live! This words are very important. It is neccesary to do a reflection about them
Always be positive and motivated
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nice...beautiful mind
Good content @chbartist
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Thanks for sharing. Good topic for us.
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This happens with everybody
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Nice
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good thinking
Good topic, you have a new follower =)
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@chbartist Agres with you in each point dear as small change gives us the massive results.... To grow we need to do small changes in our life to get the results and we can't make all the things in one day but we need to start with small things and need to stick to them until results are visible =) thanks for sharing value... Keep it up your articles always excite us. Btw where do get such creative ideas from??? Looking forward for mor such motivation and inspiration =) Good luck =)
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Hey @chbartist!
Thank you for the contente, love your blog!
I wrote a piece on the same vein that you and your followers might like, take a look and see what you think of it:
https://steemit.com/mindset/@marlucco/you-are-not-your-badge
Thanks, @marlucco
The best book I read is Think and grow rich
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