The Mistake of Giving Validity to Your Life’s Extras....

in #mindset6 years ago

Hello, dear Steemians!

An important part of success is how much validity you give to the storm of voices surrounding you.
You have all been to watch a movie in your lifetime at least once. Can you remember one of those experiences you had with a film? Films take us to a fictional world inhabited by many colorful and believable characters.
These characters all have their own dilemmas, be it small or big, and they all have a purpose and something they move forward to achieve.


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Let me pique your memory a little further. Have you actually paid attention to all of those characters? Or have you simply focused on the journey of the protagonists? When we see a film’s credit, there are numerous roles that are practically unnamed.
Cap Driver No. 1, Police Officer No. 2, Firefighter etc. are all the extras of the story of our life. Unfortunately, most of us are usually preoccupied about what the Cap Drivers think of what we do and how we do it, and we allow their judgements and sense of opinion to cloud our own logic and determination.
Do not let somebody be a priority when you are an option to them. Their opinions do not determine how you should live your life. Everyone lives in a thought bubble and they tend to think the world is as they think about it.
That is not true. The world is not what other people say it is. The world, and more importantly your life, is what you make of it.


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This is not to say that you should be resistant or reluctant towards advice or good counsel. But do not let their mere opinions find a place in your mind and sit as true and nonnegotiable facts.
“You cannot do that! You cannot be that! There is no way you can pull that off! You will never be worthy of anything! You must change the way you see the world! Life is not as you see it! You are mistaken with your worldview! You are wrong!’
These are all the sentences that rage against the barricade of your mind. These are the negative surges of energy sent forth by the storm that doesn’t want you to succeed.
Most people are content with their own misery and tend get used to it, and they would sooner see you get used to that same wretchedness than try to understand your original and innovative point of view or your ambitions and your unlikely dreams.


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Do not let these extras have a say in how you see the world or how you live your life.
As a wise person once said, ‘You are not the opinion of someone who doesn’t know you.’
Resist against the raging storm of negativity that might surround you in our human society and strive for greatness, as it has always been your one and true destiny.

A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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Excellent review @chbartist and you are right, on our way to success we meet a lot of people and a lot of opinions about and what we do, but we need to learn how to understand these opinions, when we need to weed out all negatives and positively accept it would be easier for us to achieve our dreams!

Dear @chbartist sir
Every day new ideas are born in this imaginative brain. Some are inspired by the surrounding environment, some are motivated by theater world. But is not it necessary that things apply in our lives? Are we influenced by things that happen around us? In fact, we find things in everything that do the work of inspiration in our lives, they help us to move forward. Mistake and error are a part of human life, we have to adjust ourselves in these circumstances. We try to imitate some people, trying to imitate them as ideal people. These things give legitimacy in our lives that affect us and our surroundings.

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Friend, pay attention in your upvotes! Because I can believe that you voted in a negative disrespectful person in this community. Regards

Of course I have mistaken, now corrected it. Although I read comments then upvote. I have seen two or three negative activities before this post and your hundred percent negative vote on their comments.So I am aware about such kinds of people but I have mistaken.
I apologize you sir for my mistake.
Thank you

It's a mistake to agree with someone who dares criticize the actions of @chbartist? How so?

Calling reasoned dissent "negative disrespect" merely betrays the depth of your own vanity and sophistry. And that is truly disrespectful.

There are people who like to manage the lives of others, and there are people who let themselves be influenced by them, without fully living their lives making their own decisions, that is to live the life of another, because they do not live their experiences, but rather of others, as others want.

Sir it is damn sure that movies can be fictional but they put up lot of experiences and inspire you , in reel life or life always you will familiar with some character who inspires you . In world many mind many find but you have to listen that what is important for you . Always we should listen all opinions but should act with own review . Nice @chbartist
THANKS!

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It is good to listen to advice, but what is not good is to let others tell you how to live your life. You have to enjoy your own experience taking into account the advice that will really help you grow.

Excellent topic for reflection. Since we are children, we listen to opinions, advice, suggestions and criticism, in our homes and schools. We respect them because they are our parents and teachers. But even worse is that we give value to the opinions of friends and even those who do not know us or do not care. And we try to please them, wanting to be accepted socially. This denotes insecurity and low self-esteem. Life is unique and belongs to us. There are moments to experiment, define what we want and allow us to enjoy our successes and admit mistakes.

Best regards.

Excellent review! I enjoyed reading this, really!

This is not to say that you should be resistant or reluctant towards advice or good counsel. But do not let their mere opinions find a place in your mind and sit as true and nonnegotiable facts.

The reality is we can't be true all the time. We could not underestimate also the outside force that influence us.
But, its our final decision to decide because we have our free will.
Trusting ourselves too much is not really that good enough.
As if we're creating our own universe which I believe idolizing ourselves as creators and gods.
And we become less sensitive to the needs of others because all we do is for our own interests and benefits.

That’s a significant statement about how we orient our lives. Great thoughts!

Good one sir @chbartist.
If people don't have their opinions about you, then you probably don't exist! So we need to embrace the fact that opinions will definitely come but we have the choice to think twice about this opinions or discard them totally. Instead of breaking down because of one bad comment, we should rather work on ourselves to become better. Negative comments highlight mistakes and weak links and hence should be used as a means of achieving excellence and perfection.
Not all comments deserve a second thought or even an immediate response from us, they are just meant to be ignored and used as stepping stones to excellence and perfection.

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A good exercise in trying to ignore all outside influence could be to make sure you limit yourself to opinions and advices that elevate your understanding. Sure, criticisms are very important to improve performance, but not at the expense of rejection and seclusion. Constructive criticism by people who aspire nothing but the better out of you will always enhance self worth.

Thanks as always for the brilliant outlook @chbartist
Would mind if we are included in the community list as @ReverseAcid?

Cheers.

Hi friend @chbartist you are here sharing in your blog post mostly belouvel subject life give us many opportunity you find around many types opinion and thoughts suggestion but I think what we need and what we do this decided more important things for us.
If we want successful life that's possible with positiveness in Mind set.

Resist against the raging storm of negativity that might surround you in our human society and strive for greatness,

Greatness, to date - in our society - technological, and moral has been achieved through negative feedback loops, not positive ones....

Something to consider..

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Have a great tuesday
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One thing is sure what do you want to achieve success just sitting here and doing nothing when you take action you can fill once twice or even 20 time but it will only bring you closer to success if it is does not look like it venue first lay down there trying to get up.

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Only with positive thoughts and a firm attitude to these thoughts we aim for success, @chbartist. Excellent post friend.

The experiences of others only serve as a point of reference about events that others have experienced and that have led to certain results. The more information we can manage, the more effective our decision-making will be, which will always have an element of present uncertainty in mind. Finally, we are responsible for our successes and our failures.

I think the way of expressing this video is great, our life goes around a lot and sometimes it's bad sometimes, but you have to enjoy it anyway. Regards!

Another great post @chbartist. It surely deserves many upvotes, and it got one from me. I usually try not to let these unimportant comments and opinions have much of an effect on me, at least in the long run. Sometimes they can have a bit of a negative effect on me in the short term, just after they occur. I will try to pay even less attention to them from here on out.

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ha man you are right. mindset means all set. thank you for sharing this post.

Think before you leap, whatever you want to do the result of success or fail is yours, so be careful before taking any steps, listen advices but implementation is upto you. thanks for sharing excellent post.

Always love coming back and checking out your post @chbartist
What an awesome community growing here!

We are not the opinion of someone who doesn’t know us. Excellent review @chbartist.

Liked these lines a lot from your posts.

Do not let these extras have a say in how you see the world or how you live your life.
As a wise person once said, ‘You are not the opinion of someone who doesn’t know you.’
Resist against the raging storm of negativity that might surround you in our human society and strive for greatness, as it has always been your one and true destiny.

Though your whole posts is full of knowledge but in few posts some lines are very meaningful and such one shared here. Thanks for sharing this world of knowledge with us dear friend @chbartist

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Friend, pay attention in your upvotes! Because I can believe that you voted in a negative disrespectful person in this community. Regards

Perfectly, we should work according to our qualifications. What people think of it, we should not care about it.

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Friend, pay attention in your upvotes! Because I can believe that you voted in a negative disrespectful person in this community. Regards

Excellent motivation and first of all for ourselves, we must understand that when we move towards our goal in life, there will always be people who will have their opinions on our activities and we just have to not pay attention to bad opinions and go ahead!

Some sincere people are concerned about you and they become your voice and vision as they see the potential in you of what you could become.
Some people just voice their thoughts because of insecurities and jealousies just to make you discouraged and never come to your dreams.
As a Christian, I know my identity and not think about what the world tells me to be but what God had made me.

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I completely agree with you, around us and what we do, there will always be different people, some will support us with kind words and will condemn us, but only we can get rid of the negative in our direction and win!

Saludos @chbartist! El mundo esta viviendo tiempos de cambios muy violentos, esto debido a la tecnología, haciendo que muchas personas no puedan ir al avance de los cambios, y en este sentido pueden caer en la acción de parar el avances de otros, ya sea por miedo a quedarse solo o por envidia a que el otro avance.

En este sentido debemos tratar de explicar a estas personas de que se trata nuestro proyecto, y de que cada quien puede emprender el suyo, es solo cuestión de aptitud.

Entre mas personas avancemos, mas equilibrada estará la carga de los cambios. Es cuestión de aptitud!

Gracias @chbartist, por tus publicaciones!

Oh yes @chbartist, golden words and I think in the same way that it is never worth something that opinion or thinking influences us and what we do. Our life is many-sided and there will be thousands of opinions around us, but only we decide what will be and how we will live!

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@chbartist Don't believe the word I say.
It is very important to live life with your experiences, don't let other tell us what we should do.

We each have a blank page to write our story on and we cannot allow anyone to impact it without it being our decision. Forge forward on your story and nobody else.

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Very nicely said @newageinv. We all have a blank page, therefore it is up to us to see if someone else writes on it, or we do.

Nice post... Please support me too..

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How does the contributers thingy work?

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Means? Read Important notes write in post! Regards

Your last past of the content with name tags. How does it work

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We are all free to think, but when they give us good advice, let's respectfully take it into account

What a great analogy, your content is authentic and directed towards personal growth in a tangible and relatable way (I love it!).
This has very similar aspects to the analogy used in my first blog post. I would really recommend reading it if you found this insightful.

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