The Emotional Dilemma That Comes with Constant Exposure to World Wide Web...

in #mindset6 years ago (edited)

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With much use and profit, it seems rather ironic or useless to even point out the problems with world wide web and social media.

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It has always been my motto that if there is something to be said, it should be said, because there is no such thing as too much debate or reflection, and it is always wise to see things from different perspectives and come to a reasonable conclusion with surety.

Today, I want to talk about something that is the bane of many young people nowadays.


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In today’s world, with internet access everywhere and the fact that most of our life is put up on social media, it is necessary to understand just how important all these loud noises truly are!

Constant and uncontrolled exposure to internet and social media platforms will eventually leave its print in your subconsciousness.

In an overwhelmed society, so far as population is concerned, it is easy to forget who you really are or wish to be, because wherever you look, people are coming at you with different ideas and values.

To mistake these personal opinions as non-negotiable facts of life is a folly that take many of us down with it.


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Being cool, classy, and elegant with the standards that define themselves in the whirlwind of social media is a great burden for a lot of people who think that the opinions of others define who they are and what they should do in this life.

When your subconscious mind has been the subject of other people’s approval, it is really hard to free yourself from the fearful grasp of social media and the dilemmas that it creates within our self-portrait.

Coming to terms with your existence and finding tranquility or comfort is all about spending time with yourself and tidying up your thoughts.

Social media platforms and internet space are addictive, which take away the time you need to reflect on your own thoughts and identity.


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The result? You have no choice other than interpreting your identity through other people and their lens.

You might have even contributed to this wrong culture by feeding this huge beast yourself. The problem of spending too much time in social media is that the voices start to matter more than they should.

Decide to take some time off and reflect on the thoughts that have craved your attention for so long.

After this experience, you are going to find yourself once again and be free of the chains that had long kept you locked up in a hell of your own making.

As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, ‘To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.’ @chbartist

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‘To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.’
The above sentence is a great conclusion to your post. The ability to keep your identity and have your own voice is the key that can safely lock any negative social media influence out of your life.

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I so much agree with this article. I myself get so addicted to social media. I end up tired the next day because of lack of sleep due to browsing. And sometimes I get upset because I often see people bragging their beautiful life and almost everything while I contemplate the emptiness and the lackness of my life. geez.

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Everything excess is always bad , being on social media ,social media has both positive and negative side as everything has. We should take positive from social media , never ever lose your identity just to follow others or to please someone.We should listen to other also but to follow our goals, which path is best,no one knows better than us.We should introspect before going to sleep.
We should be free from invisible social media chains around us that is tightening day by day
Thanks for sharing @chbartist

Great motivation @chbartist and you are right, there is a very emotional life now and many are very tense, but we need to understand ourselves, have a rest and move with new forces to our dream!

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Great work! I'm a fan, please add me to your list @chbartist
Thank you

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When your subconscious mind has been the subject of other people’s approval, it is really hard to free yourself from the fearful grasp of social media and the dilemmas that it creates within our self-portrait.
Very nice post @chbartist and above lines are Essential to understand.

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I have already followed your channel but there is no content yet. Looking forward for some content from you.

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Interesting that I have been able to remain away from most social media but with Steem I have felt the need to continue to engage to grow given the opportunity of early adopting what could be the future of social media! I think that balance is always important but sharing experiences is often a validation of your persona.

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Thanks for your article. It’s true so many people spend their time seeking approval from strangers and forget the most important approval needed is their own.

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If we use the internet in a healthy way then we become healthy.
If we use it badly we become bad as well.
We gotta use it wisely and with caution.
Always apply the virtue of temperance.

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Que motivación das te felicito eres una inspiracion

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thanks to you and I am subscribed and waiting for your warm content you should teach!

Todos los extremos son malos, dañan y terminan alienando a las personas cuando llega la adicciòn. Sin embargo, el uso equilibrado de las redes sociales no deja de tener una importancia superlativa, como medio de informaciòn, comunicaciòn, educativo, deportivo, festivo, instructivo y de distracciòn inclusive. Podemos ilustrar el uso de las redes sociales tambièn como un medio de proyecciòn de imagen, es el caso de la figura del Presidente de la Asamblea Nacional venezolana(Actual Presidente Interino del Paìs) que se ha construìdo su imagen con el sòlo uso de las redes sociales, porque los medios de comunicaciòn establecidos, pùblicos y privados estàn sensurados y autosensurados y no le permiten espacios en esos medios. No obstante, mundialmente ha sido reconocido como tal.

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the internet is a dark and mean place.
it's like being sucked into a black hole

using internet likewe are use a blade , they can get more advantages if they use those in right place and right treatment.

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Yeah. Thx.
Its hart to distance yourselfe from social media.Too much is not healthy.

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Interesting and very informative, there are things that I still do not know about the web and I thank people like you for the information they provide to others.

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