Its more to do with laws against Men and the continuous battle to replace men in society with women .

Its safer to go your own way than to face the continuous sexism in favour of women , to avoid universties that seek out and favour women , to avoid the courts that favour women , to avoid the films that are majority made for women , to avoid the fake rape accusations where women must be believed and not questioned , to avoid joining in with a society that seems set to destroy the very men who built it and pay the taxes for it .

if you want to risk entrapment via divorce , or child payments for life or maybe a fake rape charge then then go ahead but for some the line has been crossed and men dont trust the women / government pact with their money children lives or liberty - its not a game and the rules are one sided .