I think that 'live is best' portion is what most folks associate with, it's the culmination of everything we've pushed for and is where we are the masters of our destinies (up to a point), that portion afterwards though, the humdrum of everyday life, the uncertainty of the reality away from the focal point, that's definitely where I think my demons start to creep in and I believe a lot of people feel the same. We feed off of each other but not necessarily in 'regular' societal terms.