Oh love....tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...really? SMH...losing is relative; just as amorous love is not really relevant to real-life. Journeying with a kindred spirit who honors and respects you; and who has a great honest, money-earning/management ethic will take you a lot further than the cutie with beauty fleeting by the second. Of course, chemistry (kindred spirits) is essential; but, too often people marry based on the elusive 'attraction'.
Paraphrasing 1Corinthians 13: Love is patient, kind, unselfish, not puffed up (egotistical), not self-serving...How many are in a relationship right this very instant in the exact opposite of these genuine words; and yet telling the world you're in love. SMH...nope...not love...As..@raghwendra noted..attraction at first sight, maybe...but l o v e, love...nope...
Peace!