Thinking about the Past or the Future, avoiding the Present, is the first cause of failure, and tension of every moment in life; that attitude connects us with the most blocker emotion of all: the Fear. We should live every single moment of the present, and like a magic, it would clean up every doubt.
This thought is shared by many philosophers, writers or sages. When we face a new problem, make a choice or gain something, we should be patient and imperturbable, with self consciousness: that will lead us to a better evolution. The result won’t fit with our first will, but when we face a new condition is really important a knowledge of living the experience and it’s always the best thing to do.
How many time a route change evolved in something better? Too many! Sometimes you let it be, and watch or just live the moment. By focusing your energy to the past, that will remember your failures and pains; i’m sure that a lot of your troubles were resolved automatically, without doing nothing. How many time you solved it with your instinct or simply by keeping calm. Probably we often had to listen some advice, from a familiar or a friend, maybe humbly more prepared than us, it’s a true fortune. If we have a problem, there is a solution; no solution means that it’s not a problem!
I mentioned “advices”, because they leads to a precious secret. We live on earth, and we cooperate with people: they are our reflex, and angels. We need to learn connection, with positive frequency. We are all special, and with infinite powers, allow yourself to cooperate with other persons. When i rejected the fear, and get used to ask for help, i realized that many people are ready and happy to do it. Don’t be afraid or ashamed, like i was before,to be ready to ask for help o prepared to give it back, for a common victory.