Love alone is blind, meditation gives it eyes.Meditation gives it understanding.
And once you love both loves both love and meditation, you become fellow travelers. Then it is no longer an ordinary relationship between husband wife. then it becomes a friendliness on the path toward discovering the mysteries of life.
Man and women alone will find the journey very long as they have found it in the past because seeing this continuous conflict, all the religions decided that those who wanted to seek should renounce the other the monks should be celibate, the nuns should be celibate. but in five thousand years of history, how many monks and nuns have become realized souls? you can not ever give me name enough to count on ten fingers and millions of monks and nuns of all religion - Buddhist, Hindu, Christian, Mohammedan..... what has happened?
The path is not so long.The goal is not that far away but even if you want to go to your neighbor's house, you will need both legs . just jumping on one leg how far can you go?
I am introducing a totally new vision that men and women together in deep friendship in loving, meditative relationship as organic wholes, can reach the goal any moment they want because the goal is not outside you, it is the center of the cyclone It is the innermost part of your being but you can find it only when you are while and you cannot be whole without the other.
Man and women are two parts of one whole
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Reference: Master Osho's " Love , Marriage and Relationship".