yup.. always had the mindset marriage is for the rest of my life.. but you can't control what the other person feels. Especially if they don't want to work it out. Hardest time of my life, but biggest time for growth. I was also young and idealistic. I don't know if i would trade the heart ache for the extra experience. I'm luckier then most men in my position. At least I can build on that experience. This time i'm more confident it will last.