Can A Man Really Cope With Two Wives?

in #marriage7 years ago

I have a friend who always says that he can never get married t two wives because for him one wife is a thousand trouble, you must not forget to call her, you must send her text messages, you must assist her, you must take good care of her family and respect them and you have to be very conversant with important dates in her life, if you forget those dates, you are in a big mess, you must look for a special name for her, you must appreciate her always, you must buy her gifts.


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Just imagine with one wife you have all this troubles, how then do you want to cope with two or more, it is strange for me when I hear men say, I can do very well with the both of them, I can love them equally so I can marry them.

For me, I think getting married to two women in a home is just looking for trouble and writing a long letter to short life for the man.

How wealthy are you, that you want to buy the same type of gift for the both of them at the same time, you better be aware that the gifts must not be occasional, it has to be constant.

How well can you perform and get the both of them pregnant at the same time, if you get one pregnant and leave the other, you are really in big trouble my friend.


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What about loving their children in the same way and not look partial at all, how do you plan to cope my friend.

Have you even thought about feeding, clothing and accommodating them?

What about if they get involved in a fight, how do you plan to settle the issue without looking partial.

My advise to you my friend is to look before you leap and not put a rope round your neck, do not put yourself through any sort of unnecessary trouble.
Be smart and wise, just choose one woman and stay contented with her.
This is from me @anyagladys.

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The ability to manage that home is dependent on patience which is a very scarce commodity

Yes, a man can cope with two wives but it is only on rare occasions.