nope, i agree, words don't hurt people. in fact see here :
http://www.businessinsider.com/study-swearing-is-healthy-2014-5
swearing is actually good for you. it lowers anxiety.
there is also Stella Grizont, she has a masters in applied positive psychology from U Penn. and uses an ice cream truck that people get inside and scream their head off for corporate team building exercises. see here :
https://www.bulletproofexec.com/91-hacking-happiness-with-stella-grizont-podcast/
It's only because of the history of programming that any of that would be relevant and if you every bit of your response proves me right in what I had to say so thank you.