Good points @papa-pepper marriage takes work, commitment and two good forgivers among other things.
This Old Dog has been happily married for 32 years. In my eyes you are a hero but can I still be a real man even though I'm afraid of snakes? More about that in another post.
All the best to you and your nice family,
@kus-knee (The Old Dog)
My kids might not be too impressed with that, but you can still be a real man!
(No need to stop now!)