I hear ya @plantstoplanks! Disheartening indeed, but hopefully even if our advice is rejected at first, perhaps we plant tiny seeds that blossom in due course! The same is true for myself... I might not want to listen straight away, but things come back to me maybe years later and then I finally accept that person was right after all! If there was a magic potion I wouldn't want it - I love how my body feels after eating right and exercise, and the satisfaction of it all... and I'm guessing you're the same :-) Keep it up anyway, I'm sure you do more good for people than you realise!