You might as well learn this early.
People upvote because they like your post, not because you want to swap votes.
People follow you because you look like you're an interesting blogger, not because you want to swap follows.
If you want to grow well on Steemit, network and work on creating good content so people want to follow, upvote and resteem.
thanks for the advice, just sharing what is seems keep the spirit also of steemit, we grow toguether and I really apreciate nice post also, and all depends of what or how is want to grow, and a win - win motivational post is another way too, thanks :)