Everything starts from respect and acceptance! Respect others as well as ourselves!!
By saying acceptance though, I don't mean only accepting the difference of others to us, but also accepting the fact that sometimes, we might not be part of someone else's choice for example!! That's also something -most of us- have a denial too !
I guess we really need to get to know who we are, what we want, accept, value and gratify that!!!
Then and only then, I believe, is easier to accept what might not please us to hear ...with a much better attitude 😚 !
Yes, you're hearing exactly my questioning! As I caught myself wanting to hear something from someone else, I wasn't able to hear them or truly listen to myself............Stepping back into me, taking responsibility for all of me, I am able to listen and hear. I am able to love and accept each moment, each word fully, with love and gratitude remembering we are all doing our best.
It does happen, no matter how much we think sometimes that we know ourselves or that we are able to make the right choices!
But do you know what's the beauty of it all?
That after all the frustration, the pain or the sadness goes away, we look at ourselves and say: "You are just human after all, you do your best and if things don't have a happy ending, I still love you and I still believe in you ☺😚"!!!
p.s.: Quantum Physics have already prooved that we attract people moving in the same energy levels like ourselves 😉!!
That after all the frustration,