Ah, Marly,

You need to use your words but you also need to save your words with an offline editor! ;) Make it a habit, it will save you lots of time when Steemit drops all the bits on the floor!

I am a firstborn also.
I choose the middle road also... Always hoping to find one of those "bad commenters" who can be rescued from futility.

Steem on, Dear!

😄😇😄