Nice post, the keyword for me here is "Ego" that is source of the problem in most cases. In fact a lot of human relationships are affected because we judge more than we love. And when you're coming from the place of being egoistic, you judge, and when you judge you become blind, you can see no love. And when you love, you don't judge. Or transcend the judgement. You don't have to bad for me to be good. But it often so happens that the ego depends on other people's flaws to get a sense of superiority. Thanks for the opportunity to talk about a rather sensitive subject. Cheers! :)