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There are a lot of tips on marriage at first glance that seem right but when applied in real life, it could destroy your marriage
Quarrel will destroy your marriage:
Some people believe that quarrels will diminish spousal affection. But many experts assert that sometimes verbal conflict can create the bond between the couple.
We often try to endure to avoid quarrel without knowing; keeping things unhappy in the long run causes hatred and enmity in our marriage. The fact that the couple are arguing, and expressing their thoughts about a common compromise in favor of both will help them understand each other better and avoid arguing over and over again.
Remember, we argue with a cooperative attitude to solve problems in life, not to win.
Spouses must not talk to each other about everything:
"Every person has their own secret and space to hold, as long as it does not affect the well-being of the family." That is not true, the secret you feel does not concern the family today may be the family guarding truth tomorrow. Being honest and loyal is a good thing and should be done in a marriage. Couple should not keep any secret for one another as that will bring distrust and loss of confidence.
You need a perfect partner for a happy marriage:
In fact, no one in this world is perfect and you are the same. Just looking for the perfect model will only make us disappointed because no one in this world is perfect, even you.
Remember, it is important not to find a perfect person, but to learn to love a person even because of their strengths and weaknesses. Most importantly, the two sides (husband and wife) must work together to improve rather than find the ideal person at the beginning.
A good wife must be a housemaid:
It is true that a good wife will worry about a good home, but it does not mean that a woman has to take on a new wife. Warm family is only complete when men also participate in housework and help their wives and children.
Men do housework not just not only to prove they are good and caring but show they are family model. When dads do housework such as washing clothes, cooking food etc., it helps them to be more sympathetic to the struggles of their wives and to indirectly educate their children about gender equality.
Marriage is completely different from dating:
When married, many couples feel that they have met so often then it is not necessary to date. Instead, they spend time with their work or friends and forget that their spouse also needs to have time to actually talk, rather than merely looking at their faces every day. Keeping love always warm, conjugal love is always new, the two sides need to continue to conquer each other, bringing the surprise to each other as when dating is extremely necessary. Do not think of getting married, you can leave everything and do not need to flirt anymore. Keep dating your partner, marriage is completely different from dating. It is your duty to love and to be loved, to improve it together, to improve its quality, to have only a positive attitude towards it - your marriage should be enjoyed and not endure.
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There is a huge difference between disagreement and quarrel. Disagreement is a normal aspect of all marriages because both partners are different and understand things differently of which an agreement or compromise can settle. But quarrel is very much different from disagreement because it leads to wrong exchange of words between both partners and verbal, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. So it is never a normal part of marriage because it kills the love in the marriage with time.
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