this is so beautiful @steemer-x, every word you have said, I will try and remember them as the days go on, I do not know if I can work through what has happen, I have realized many things but just not that yet. It is so hard to not be with your partner after 10 years, it leaves a huge gap, an opening in your life, but I have been hurt so bad, I do not know yet if I can accept and move on together with him, only time will tell I guess, Thank you for your support and wisdom xxx

We are here, after all, not to FIND ourselves. We are here to CREATE ourselves

so beautifully said xx