Amazing.. True love, I do believe it's not your partner should live up to your expectation and etc. It's how you could find a way to tolerate and appreciate all of him/her. I have my mom who constantly want my dad to improve. It's just disastrous. My dad is really a good man hardworking one, but he's just not that romantic and etc. They're not divorced, thank god. But it's detrimental to their marriage. I told my mom that, but she wouldn't listen. It's such a paradox.