I have had a vicious past that left me empty and hollow... This even as I became a mum was there. I struggled to connect and remain relevant in so many people's lives even as they did nothing to keep me there. Then life took me to a place of solitude and I figured out who I was or what I could afford to give emotionally. This led me to understand that everything in life is two way and for me to in anyone's life, they too have to play a part.