GUIDE TO GETTING GIRLS Part 3 by @TedWang (The Manifesto)

If a girl has walked down that path with you before, is she willing to walk down that path with you again?! Find out~ in this episode of GUIDE TO GETTING GIRLS Part 3 written by @TedWang

Girls will put you on a scale. Then, the way they’ll treat you is based on a range of putrid object of disgust to addictive object of affection. She will treat you on a range of anywhere between those two. She isn’t treating you like a human if you’re on either opposite ends of that spectrum. When you become your attraction killers to the point where she gets tired or bored of you, then you’ve become her putrid object of disgust and your name is crossed off her list of potential mates. You want to be anywhere between the middle (her stranger) to her addictive object of affection. Here’s a chart:

Let’s say you’ve become your attraction killers to the point where she gets tired or bored of you and leaves you (her putrid object of disgust)- and on top of that, she knows too little about you. In this case, it’s impossible to win back her attraction. If, on the other hand, she knows too much about you (and you’re also her putrid object of disgust), then you must completely transform into a different person from the inside out and from the outside in- to the point where she doesn’t recognize you anymore. Then, she’ll start becoming curious about you and start asking you questions.

Otherwise, whenever she sees you, she’ll think ‘Oh, there he is again,’ and every time you contact her, she’ll think ‘Oh, he’s calling me again’. If you take the ‘he’ out of the sentence and transform the very substance of who ‘he’ is, then ‘he’ will mean something different to her the next time she uses ‘he’ in a sentence.

When you change the way she sees you, then you change the way she treats you. The less she knows about you, the more curious she will be about you. The more curious she is about you, the more questions she’ll ask you. If you know too much about someone, then there’s nothing more to talk about or to be curious about.

Your behavior (what you say and do) and your interaction with her must feel fresh (and refreshing) to her (give her a sense of freshness every time you encounter her). The behavior and interaction between you two must never feel stale or expired to her. Someone told me: “You must become an interesting book to her and she must become an interesting book to you”- a page-turner, addictive, not knowing what to expect on the next page, not knowing what the ending is going to be, and hard to put down. It’s gotta have plot twists, and it’s gotta grab your attention and hold it.

If you can convince her that your life is better without her in it, then you can win back her attraction. However, your life must truly be better without her in it. If you’re daydreaming about her, thinking about her, or wondering if she’s with another guy or not, then your life isn’t better without her in it. If you’re not over her, then everything you say and do to her and around her will be drenched in attraction killers.

If a girl has been down that path with you before, then is she likely to walk down that path with you again? If she sees you as an addictive object of affection (or an always or never), then yes. If she sees you as an inedible food, then no (when you’re anywhere between her non-stranger to her putrid object of disgust).

You’re only able to have feelings for your always. So, if you long for the adventure and the rush of having feelings for a girl, then choose your always but don’t become your attraction killers, and don’t surpass a 1st degree addiction to her.

Start withdrawing from her once she’s addicted to you. When your never’s addicted to you, her addictive behavior will look and feel like feelings to you, but don’t be fooled. What’s the difference between addiction and feelings? You can become addicted to someone you have feelings for as well as don’t have feelings for. You can have feelings for someone you’re both addicted to and not addicted to. Addictions are non-romantic sensations. If you’re her never, then she’ll never have feelings for you.

When her addiction to you wears off (by you gradually or suddenly becoming your attraction killers or if there are other objects or performers active in her life), then there are no feelings behind her non-romantic sensations that you thought were feelings. But if you’re her always, then she won’t trigger your attraction killers and she’ll have feelings for you before and after her addiction to you wears off.

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