When I was little I'm always amaze with a foreign people, maybe because my two Aunts married and met their partners in a foreign country. I met them and both of their husbands are nice. My one Aunt who lives in England, her husband is a nice and quiet person. I can tell his a nice person, because of his face. My Aunt in France, her husband is funny and jolly person.
When I grow up, I dreamed of marrying a foreign guy, so when I was in high school I told my friends that I want to marry a Foreigner and they all just laugh. They said I'm crazy and just dreaming about it. So, when I went to college I started to register in all of the dating sites or even in yahoo. But, I have no luck, so my sister helped me, but its been like years and didn't find the guy that is honest and trustworthy. So, I gave up and had a relationship with one of m friends friend in college. His 1 year younger than me, my world just exist with him. I failed some of my subjects because of him, instead of attending my classes, I will go to his house and hanging out with him. My family didn't like him nor want me to be with him. But, I didn't listen to them. So, that's when I discover that I was pregnant. Everything went bad, he said his not yet ready for the responsibility. And with the help of my family, I raised my son.
I worked in a mall for 2 years to raise my son and not just depend on my parents, eventually after end my contract. The company didn't renew my contract. So, my sister told me that she will help me finish my college. So, I went back to my school and finished my degree. After I graduate, we experience, the worst typhoon. It was scary, you can see the coconut trees fell and the wind sounds like its crying. After the typhoon my sister and brother decided to bought us ticket to go to Manila and stay their for awhile while there's no power in our town. Stay in Manila for 2 weeks and decided to went home after. When I got back in our hometown, I know, I need to do something to financially survive. Even if my parents doesn't like me to work. So, one day I told them I want to go to to Manila and find a job there. Thankfully they agreed, and promise that they will take care of my son.
So, I went to Manila and applied a job online. It was scary to find a strange city and I didn't even know what to ride or where to go. But, I keep positive and pray that God will guide me. Had two interviews all went well. The problem is I need to travel for 2 hours just to get there, so my brother advice me not to accept the jobs. While waiting for some companies to call me. I saw an ad about this Christianfilipino dating site, I registered and try if there is a nice person that would be interested to my profile. The next day there's one guy that sent me a wink. I sent him back a wink and after an a hour he sent me an email. I was surprised, I thought it will take me days to hear from someone. Almost everyday we talk through messenger or the dating site or skype. After months of talking we open up about our true feelings towards each other. Before my birthday he told he wants to meet me in person, i though his joking. But his really serious.
I remember it was September 6, 2014, hired a taxi and went to the airport to meet him, waited for 4 hours in the waiting area. I was anxious and nervous, if he really in that plane. My phone is ringing and it's a unknown number, answered it, it was him. He told me his outside the aiport and waiting for me. I told him, I cant see you. And he describe to me what he wore that night. Look around in the Ninoy Aquino Terminal 1, I didn't see his face. Asked him if his joking, and told me his not. So, I asked him if he can ask someone there what terminal his at, and he asked someone and told me his in terminal 3. OH yeah great! were both in a different terminal. To be sure that I'm not in a wrong terminal I asked the security in the airport if what terminal is ANA Airline and the security guard told me, they moved to terminal 3. I guess I'm the one whose in the wrong terminal. Called him and told him ill be there in a few minutes. Went to the parking area and looked for the taxi driver that i hired. Found the taxi driver sleeping, so I need to wake him up and told him to drive to terminal 3. I was excited and my heart was beating too fast. Arrived in terminal 3, saw my guy standing and looking around, got out from the cab and saw his handsome face and gave him a hug and kiss. I was relief, I thought we will never see each other that night.
We fly and went to our town to meet my family, he asked my hand to my parents and my parents said yes. I was surprised that he will do that. After 5 days in our town we went back to Manila for his flight, it was sad. I saw his eyes watery, never in my entire life a guy would cry for me. That day, i felt that I am special to him, it just weird, when he leave I didn't cry at all.But, went I went back to our apartment, i cried a lot, I had some bad stuff in my mind. What if i will not hear anything from him or maybe he will find someone when he gets back in the US. When he went back to the US, he mmediately called me and after a week process my papers so we will be together.
May 2, 2015, the most special day of our lives. Got married in the church with my family and his family, I never thought I will found my true love online.I thought before it wont happen to me, but surely it did. You just need to be positive and be honest. But, the biggest weapon is always ask guidance from God, he will not fail you. 