One of the causes of breakup!
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" Possessive "
Possessive basically has the same meaning as jealousy, but possessive is more likely to curb, control, restrict something or someone. Possessive is a negative attitude, because it can harm other people and ourselves, why? because if you're possessive you will always feel suspicious, prejudice, overly jealous, hate and unpleasant feelings will fill your heart and your brain. All these feelings make you fear of losing him, make you want to do everything that you can to make him not do what he's done, and wants him to do everything you want.
For him, your possessive makes him uncomfortable, because he feels like being caged, constrained, and feel overly regulated. Even though you think it's good for your relationship, but that's not good for him. In a relationship he wants to feel a romantic and pleasurable relationship, not a relationship that makes him tense and suffer from being too restrained and regulated. If one of the couples in a relationship is uncomfortable with the relationship, that relationship certainly can be broken, and to improve that relationship you must change your possessiveness and more trust in your lover.
Good work my friend. Congratulations.
Thank you 😁 @lightshield