He is your biggest fan
They say when your man is not your biggest fan, he is not your man to begin with. This is to say that when the best of things and circumstances knock on your door, your guy is the first one who is there for you, who appreciates you in all the ways he can, who shows how proud he is of you and all that you have accomplished and the first one to celebrate your good moments with you.
When you feel down, he will be the first one to cheer you up. In a way, he will idolise you with all the best of what he has to offer you. He may not hold the cheerleading pompoms for you but he will still be the first one to tell everyone else about your tiniest to biggest successes and achievements.
He will make you feel like the center of attention, the one under the spotlight and a superstar. That is only because he appreciates your growth as a person and wants you to never forget that someone out there is actually proud of your accomplishments in life
He will be highly supportive, even in the losing moments
True support does not come by cheering when you win only. What matters more than that is holding on to faith in the other person especially in tough times, when loss is the only thing one sees.
Those tough times are indeed times for trying and the fact that your guy stands up for you in those moments proves how great he is. Instead of losing faith in you, he will only build you back up, harden your resolve and make you get back up on the track and try again.
Even when you fail, he will be there to hold the heavy weight of defeat with you but at the same time, he will make you stronger to fight again the next day. His support will always keep you motivated, even when you yourself start to doubt yourself. Know how great your boyfriend actually is when he makes you feel like a winner even when you tell yourself you are nothing more than a pathetic loser.
He truly and deeply cares for you and wants to see you get the best out of everything life has to offer and so, he will always provide you his resilient support and confidence, no matter how tough things might get
He always keeps in touch
Imagine being away from your guy but waking up to his sweet good morning texts and sleeping to his warm declarations of love and care. Whether it is asking you if you have taken your meals on time or whether it is just a simply hello, your guy will not fail to text or call you. He will keep you updated on his doings and whereabouts, even if he is busy or out with friends.
If he wants, he would not even bother to do so but it is only because he is a great guy that he sees the necessity in keeping in touch with you, no matter the distance in between you two. Your conversations might not be the usual length, but the love will still be there.
By doing so, he is letting you know that no matter what he is doing, where he is going and who he is with – you are the one constant on his mind
He will act like your own personal doctor
Health comes first – as we have been told like a mantra since we were kids. And your boyfriend realizes this for your sake better than anyone else. A great one, at that, will make the effort to know all about your health conditions. When you get sick, he will take a mental note of which medicines you have to take.
He will memorize the sort of diet you should be on if you are a bit diet-conscious. He will never let you feel physically helpless when you are not on your best of days in terms of health. And even if he does not manage to do any of this, you will always know how much he cares about you by his concern for you and his 'get well soon' wishes.
He hates it when you feel weak
Your boyfriend is a great one when he sees you crying, or having a slight breakdown or just downright feeling small and weak and feels more terrible than you.
He is your support system, so when he sees you teetering on the edge of weakness, he will feel like the worst guy on the planet. Not to mention his utmost efforts to make you feel better, he will also make sure you never feel that way again.
He hates to see you cry. This is a sign how much your boyfriend cares about you. Just as your smiles and achievements make him happy, your sorrow and tears make him sad too.
He is your hero
Your great boyfriend might not be Batman, or the richest guy in the world, or be an award-winner and own ten big jet planes. But he is still your hero – your unmasked and most humane hero.
When anyone hurts you or your feelings, does wrong to you or falsely accuses you and so on, your guy will suddenly turn all macho and be there to defend you no matter who and what he is up against. Your safety is his first concern.
He is your hero who will not only save you from the world but also from yourself. When the darkness inside you begins to consume the best in you, trust your guy to be there for you and to remind you of who you are, bring you back to yourself and save you from the monsters inside yourself.The fact that he has no idea what he might be facing only proves how great and loving he truly is towards you.
He never minds your busy routine
If it is one in the morning and you return from work, your great boyfriend will not ask you what took you so long, will make sure you eat and get rest and will never angry or even the least bit frustrated when you are knee-deep in your work.
He understands you have a busy routine, so he knows better than to push you into straying from that routine. Instead, what he will do in fact is lend you a hand whenever he can; he will make sure you have everything you need right by your side and then, when you are all done with your work, he will offer to give you a relaxing time all to yourself, probably even do some chores around just to make things easier for you and anything else that will help you get the edge of work off of you.
He will always be supportive and patient with you and your work plus hectic routine.
He inspires you greatly
It is a sign that you don’t just have any boyfriend but a great and amazing one at that too, when he is your inspiration behind most things in life; things that matter the most anyway. When you so much as even think about giving up on your dream, he will keep you inspired and motivated. Just the thought of being with him tomorrow, and having him be a part of your future will keep you be enough inspiration for you to keep going and trying your best.
Thats a great reminder of what a guy I can be :) thx
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