Selection of Love is like choosing a bread, why should bread, because bread is our daily necessity and love can not be separated from human life.
Bread of substitute staple food with a soft criteria, many flavors, filling so that we easily make choices based on needs.
Love too, as a staple but not a substitute for the same criteria sometimes easily make choices to someone who is perceived to be fit only on observation and inappropriately.
So my story this time @musmus