Nice update.
most times, the questions of

who will be your val or who is your val ?

is always very annoying to me.
Valentine's Day is just a day.
the question is, after the 14th February,2018, what will happen to the remaining days of February or he remaining days of he year.

my advice is that, be careful of what you do on the 14th of February, so that it will not be held against you?.