I was going through posts and then I saw your comment on someone's post. Honestly, it was your face that caught me. I read your introduction as well. Welcome on steemit and I am sure that you can be very successful here.
I am a divorced man and though I am no master at marriage but I think that I understand it little better after Divorce.
The best tip is to leave your Igo outside the house.
We run a discord channel as well. We help new users and also clear their doubts. If you want to join then you are most welcome. :)