People are confused if God really loves them because they're hearing many voices, and reading many articles or post confusing them to their true identity. They believed John 3:16 but they don't live it out. They cant even turn the other cheeks. The greatest commandments is to Love God and Love others- it means you don't curse people, you knew God also created them in His image. Approached them in the right way. Remember that people are watching every step we had. We are representing Jesus Christ. Rebuke with love through Gods words. Be humble.