Sex is not what you really think it is and neither is marriage all about sex its all spiritual

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge (Hebrews 13:4).

When you enter into that bond illegally, and then marry someone who is not the will of God for your life, you have to be prepared for the consequences.

Approaching sex outside of God creates its own blanket of residue on you. Do you know what the results are? You’ll find yourself attracted to people who are not purged (purified from sin), just like you. These people are not the mates God intended for you.

We say that we just “clicked.” We have “chemistry.” No, what you have is the same perverted spirit. You have the same unclean nature, and spirits attract their own kind. This is how you end up with someone who you think is for you. However, when you go through the process of purification, you will see that he’s far from the right person. The difference will blow your mind.

That’s why people who are considering marriage must seek godly counsel. Many people say that they will make it because they just love each other. You may think you’re in love, but you just may be after sex, and sex doesn’t need true love to operate. Sex will take care of itself.

The question is, “Have you been processed to compatibility? When you don’t feel like having sex, are you still close? What happens when you don’t feel like going in the sheets? Are you flexible with the way you relate to your wife or husband? Is she your your sister or his he your brother? Are you friend? Can you go to the zoo with him?” He’s got to be somebody you can laugh with and share with. Why? Because sex is not all there is to marriage.

When touching, handling, and fondling enter your relationship, it distorts your focus on the spirit of the person. Instead, your attention is drawn to their flesh. You begin to desire each other’s genitals more than you begin to desire to see the Spirit of God in each other. You can always tell when it’s that kind of relationship because when there is no sex, you don’t have anything to talk about.

You find yourself doing stuff out of the ordinary to satisfy your nature and his. That can become annoying, especially when your mind is preoccupied with something else.

Lovemaking starts on your feet. If you call from work and tell me what I mean to you and come home with flowers, that’s when lovemaking begins. Lovemaking starts when you wake up in the morning. It starts when you help with the kids. It starts when you call during the day to see how I am doing. It starts with ministering to my spirit.

When two people join themselves sexually, it’s not just a physical act. Their spirits are really joined together as one. Why? Because when you are at work, you are concerned about the other part of your body at home. While walking into the grocery store, you think about what your mate wants to eat. That is what it really means to be one.

ACCORDING TO THE SPIRIT REALM,
YOU BECOME ONE WITH EACH
PERSON WITH WHOM YOU HAVE SEX.

When you haven’t allowed God to purify you, and you meet another individual who is impure, the pull from the enemy overcomes you. The joining of those two people becomes a stronghold in the spirit realm, just as it would be if you joined yourself to God. It’s not the will of God for your life, but it becomes a soul tie. The Bible says that a husband and wife are joined together and become one flesh

If your mate has not come through prayer and supplication, then you have chosen that mate illegally. Your relationship has a shaky foundation. Only deep repentance by both parties can repair the damage. If you date and marry in the flesh, I can tell you this: expect extra, extra, extra problems along with the problems that marriage already comes with.

THE PROPER METHOD TO RECEIVE ANYTHING FROM GOD IS THROUGH PRAYER AND SUPPLICATIONS

Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God (Philippians 4:6).

We feel comfortable when we can blame the other person. Deep down, we know that it’s really our fault, too. When you realize that you could not keep your vows, it makes you angry. You went into the situation with the wrong motives. You had big ideas for the wedding, but not a clue about marriage.

Have you ever noticed what happens at a wedding? Everyone walks down the aisle slowly, but go out of a wedding quickly. Maybe somebody needs to change that tradition. Let’s create a new one where you have to walk out of the church as slowly as you walked in. I think people have the concept that they can come into the marriage slowly, but they can get out quickly.

Let's not take sex and marriage for granted but understand the mystery behind by rely on God and not on our own understanding.

Thanks for reading and all the best wishes as God connects you to your divine soulmate.