Hello, maintaining a relationship is not something easy but not impossible, I have been married for 14 years and we have gone through ups and downs, but as @appreciator says, an important element is the understanding that the couple is not perfect, it is easy to criticize but not to put ourselves in the shoe of another, as a couple we must enhance the virtues of the other and also help them to improve their defects and vice versa.
Thank you so much @emiliocabrera for dropping by. I will take note of your comment. I can make use of that to be able to understand my partner more. But sometimes it’s just tiring when you feel like you’re the only one trying to make it work. I dont know maybe this is just part of some postpartum blues. Thank you. God bless.
amen, you're right, both parties must be involved. Try in various ways.