BEFORE YOU SAY I DO

Its beautiful and feels soo exciting when we finally find our Mr or Miss right. But wait a second. Do you really know who you are?
Before finally sealing that relationship, there are important questions to ask yourself which I'll be discussing.

ESSENTIAL THINGS TO KNOW

1. WHO AM I?

Do you know who you are? Self discovery isn't only the beginning of wisdom but a happy life. Knowing who you are encompasses understanding what your likes and dislikes are, having a vision and plan on how to execute them, being accountable for your actions at all times.

Understanding who you are and what you want for your life keeps you focused. When you do not see a relationship or a person as what makes you whole or complete, you are on the right path.
Been in someone's life should add value to you and them and not just one sided.

1. WILL YOUR CHILDREN BE PROUD OF THEIR DADDY?

Before you say I do, be sure your children will not only see a father but a mentor in him. A man who has values and morals to put the kids on the right path is a YES.

1. YOUR BELIEFS

Having similar beliefs with your partner is very important for peace and unity in the home. It's beautiful when a husband and wife pray and worship together. Most times, different beliefs brings about conflicts and confusion especially when the children are involved. When there is confusion on if I should follow mummy to church or follow daddy to the shrine sets in, it brings about disunity in the home

1. DO YOUR VISION FIT INTO THAT OF YOUR PARTNER?

This is essential so you don't loose track of who you and your purpose on Earth. Don't end up struggling to achieve you dreams or let them waste away because your partner do not support you.

So friends, these are few of them and I know there are still more. Just do your homework properly, pray and believe before saying I DO.

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