An expert in sexual relations has answered the most common questions that males usually make throughout their lives. Some were expected...
Sexuality is a very important part of our lives but it still generates enough confusion. Years of supposed release have not been enough to end the taboo surrounding sex, and although it is an issue that interests us all (although many deny it), we have a hard time talking about it.
Taking into account all the tools we have to know about the subject, it is tragic that many people continue to have an unsatisfactory sexual life or lack of information (something that probably also ruins their love life) for not having some concepts Clear. For this reason, Tracey Cox, the most media expert in the United Kingdom, has proposed to collect those doubts that every man wants to solve about sex in ' Daily Mail
"I've been researching sex life for over 30 years and even though time has passed, every generation of men is still stuck in the same questions as their parents, grandparents and other family members," says the expert.
What to do to make my penis bigger
Men are more obsessed with the size of their member than women. At some point in their life, they measure it and in their mind, an inch up or down becomes a world: something that is insignificant for them because most of the nerve endings are found in the first three centimeters of the vagina.
The research suggests that the thickness is much more important than the length and while they pretend to envy others when they casually fall into the conversation that their preferences are great, really those that have too huge are those that more They scare and create more problems and pains. Despite this, is there any way to lengthen it?
Enlargement surgery is still far from perfect, but it is still rare. There is some evidence that the vacuum pumps for the penis help build more healthy, stronger and fuller erections. By pumping blood into the member's chambers, you keep it oxygenated and enjoy a good functioning. However, apart from this system, you have to make up with what you have.
"Make it look like it "
Men always complain that they do not perform this practice and do not understand why. It is true that the seminal flow of men contains a lot of nutrients, but it is also true that it can be harmful to people who ingest it. To begin with, oral sex is something of two, in which the two parties should feel comfortable and enjoy. There are people who practice it without getting to ejaculate and others who swallow the semen without problems.
The taste, color and even density of the semen varies according to the person and other aspects such as feeding. Several studies have shown that ingestion can have antidepressant effects or even help prevent cancer, but also transmit numerous sexually transmitted diseases. Tracey says that it is more about that it seems that it ingests that to really feel that it is doing it: "It is in your head, you can get to the point of the ejaculation while you think that it will do and when you reach the orgasm, not doing it, you will have the same feeling of Pleasure ".
"What do I do to last longer "
There is no "official" time period that defines you suffering from premature ejaculation. The most cited definition is whether the orgasm is too fast for your satisfaction or that of your partner. Most do not know that many ejaculate at two minutes, and others, at four. There are ways to last longer, but their effectiveness depends on the factors that advance your ejaculation.
There are quite effective aerosols (although some anesthetize and may not be ideal), using condoms or masturbation also helps. Do it right before a sex session and you'll last longer the second time. When we masturbate we learn to control our orgasms: how they are, when they arrive and where to play to be more or less intense. If we practice onanism often, men and women can learn to slow down or accelerate the arrival of our own climax, and, once in a couple, put it into practice to endure more or less.
You can also perform Kegel exercises: designed to exercise and strengthen the pelvic muscles. A study conducted in 2014 reiterated the importance of performing these exercises to enjoy a healthy sex life. According to researchers, they are especially beneficial in helping women achieve orgasm, but also for men: "Males exercising pelvic floor muscles can last up to four times more during a sex session. The study authors ensured that the
Another practice that you can do is to tighten the penis: "You have to apply a firm pressure with the thumb and forefinger and try to focus the movement on the urethra, the tube that runs through the lower part of the penis," explains the expert. This technique can help delay male orgasm and momentarily decrease sexual tension. A squeeze that represses the ejaculation and therefore hold on longer.
"What to do when I can't have an erection "
Relax and first find out if the problem is psychological or physical. One thing you have to keep in mind is your health because there are several factors that are causing this erectile dysfunction. There are studies that indicate that with an abdomen whose circumference is more than one metre, erections can be twice as difficult. Another cause is that the more you smoke, the more likely you will have to suffer a gatillazo. Tobacco damages the epithelium (lining) of blood vessels, affecting the muscle mass of the penis and hindering blood circulation.
"Labor stress is directly related to erection problems. If you add that you sleep badly and do little exercise, is the perfect formula for your member does not rise, "says Tracey. Washing your teeth well without forgetting the gums is also related to your performance in sex. The British Dental Health Foundation reports that four out of five men with erectile dysfunction also have periodontal diseases.
"How to know if you're faking"
"Women fake orgasms so often that most men have no idea what is real and what is not. I'm sorry to be frank, but it's really the truth. " They tend to do so not to make your partner feel bad and not to think that they are doing wrong or are not liking them. It is almost impossible to know for sure whether you have had it or not, but you can look at a red blush on your chest, the sensitivity of the clitoris immediately after orgasm or as a result of increased blood pressure, the lips swell, Redden and Naturally moist.
"Do you really ejaculate? "
Yes. In most women, the movements that lead to ejaculation should be rhythmic and continuous. And it is very important that when they feel that they are about to remove the liquid, do not contract for fear, but inversely, they ' push ' out to get it. There is also another type of stimulation, which can be carried out in an analysis, making that movement on the wall that touches the vagina.
"Do you want to make threesomes? "
"Be careful what you want ", the expert says. The idea of making a trio is very attractive to men but the reality is that it is often stressful and destroys your ego. Why? This is because many have performance anxiety as they face something they crave, and they enjoy their sex more than they expect, leading to problems of jealousy and bad feelings.
Accept that you will not convince, but you never know: According to a study conducted at the University of Finland, the hidden desires of females vary depending on the time of the menstrual cycle in which they are, so maybe one day you get lucky and you succeed.