What does the word spontaneity tell you?
I'm sure everyone will say that she describes a quickness, something unplanned, an action you did not build on.
For example, you set people on a specific day for dinner, so you think about it, you know it's going to happen, you're excited about it, something really prepares you emotionally and mentally for the event because you know you're expecting it.
Spontaneity is the same determination with people for dinner only at that moment, on the evening that approaches. Right now. now. There is not much time to prepare mentally, emotionally, mentally. There is no time to understand what is about to happen, how our mood will be, because it is right at this moment. It's right now.
This can be very stressful, because the very fact that we are human, we like talking very much and after a long time to act to make sure that everything is fine, that we understand with ourselves that we are doing the right thing ... just like eating food and giving it time to digest?
But what is better for us?
Each coin has two sides as well.
Of course, logical spontaneity can be very good, now sometimes there is spontaneity and nonsense that you discretion and complete self-confidence can distinguish ...
What do I mean and what is the title that I write in the title spontaneity can lead to a happy life?
Imagine that the dreams you want to achieve are action-free without planning because of spontaneous spontaneity that happens in a moment and you do not have time to think, but you know it can be a net risk because you do not have the time to feel, digest and absorb, but you know it can be very That this will lead us to realize the dream. And the huge advantage of this thing that you do without hesitation, moving forward, giving in your head.
A lot of people do not practice to act this way and so they create for themselves an absolute majority of situations in life of more talk than actions that are not sufficiently trained about the spontaneity.
And of course, the more they grow, the more contain, pass more, absorb more, and so the ability of the impact of the realization of spontaneity is diminishing.
What do I suggest?
Just like fitness, to begin with small and simple actions ... to let the muscles act and begin to feel something, and gradually to rise gradually.
I have just done a spontaneous act of flying alone to visit friends in the Philippines, because I always wanted to travel there and I did not have anyone and now they are on their way there from another direction, and this is an amazing opportunity. And you remember what my middle name is?
Taking advantage of opportunities!
So just knowing that they're coming next week and I'm planning without anything, I did it. As opposed to people who plan these things for months and years. I simply asked for the framework I was in and explained at the height of honesty about the situation, and guess what? They understood, were enthusiastic about my determination and understood. The very fact that I am a person who always gives and also because they understand that this is an opportunity.
For those who do not take advantage of the opportunity that comes, will not expect the universe to give them the required things!
And those who will not work on spontaneity ... not to mention the opportunities that will elude him and from there you have completely devoted the way to your happy life.
So think and act right, because you are capable of it.
So True, mate!
The trick is to listen to the inner voice and follow the impulses. The challenge is to know which is an authentic impulse and which is a whim.