VICTIM OF LOVE...

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A lot of people make so much sacrifice in the name of love these days and get hurt in return or un appreciated. If you have never one day asked yourself, ‘Why am I even putting myself through this?’ then I must say you’re having it real good. Sometimes people make these sacrifice for the wrong people who happen to be mater minds in manipulation, exploiting others feeling towards them and leaving a bag of mess for their partners to clean up after because they know they would. In which case you are the reason the rest of us routinely lie traumatized in bed wondering what spirits we consumed the day before we agreed to this. Do you have any idea? No. loving the wrong person can open your eyes to a lot of things, hopefully you don’t get hurt in the process

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So, I was thinking earlier if falling in love is the brain’s way of tricking us into something we would never engage in with our logical minds intact and functioning. Bad relationships end up leaving people negative and psychologically mess you their perception of others and how love works. Sometimes making them take uncalculated risk in favor of someone who wouldn’t do the same for them. They become the yes man or woman in a toxic relationship. well can we blame it on the dopamine in full flow, unlocking your inner (mumu) irrational thinking. You can’t really escape it but some personal space to observe and advice from people who you trust their judgment can tell you if you are walking in the right path.

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Sometimes its very easy to turn a blind eye to signs or matters that troubles you because of the fear of losing that person who means the world to you at the time, so you push matters under the rug. Even though you already in your subconscious know the out-come of the situation but you choice not to do anything because it is a threat to your fairy tale world you have created. You do nothing in the face of glaring proof of how bad situations have become. You constantly humble yourself to save a relationship that ended a lot time ago making unnecessary sacrifice, shooting yourself in the foot because your scared to see the world again outside that fairy tale you have created.

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Its time to stop for a minute and thing about your life and where this relationship is taking you to. Stop constantly putting yourself at risk because of fear, do what you have to do know or nature would find a way to help you do it which maybe more difficult to bear. Review your goals and life plans and see where you are, stop wasting time in a toxic relationship, you would find freedom once you get out and realize how much time you have wasted doing that which you shouldn’t be doing. When you notice something, speak up and get satisfactory answer and do not compromise when its not mutual. Let us stop being victims of manipulation and leaving healthier lives. Mutual love would definitely find you, remember you are beautiful and deserve the very best.