It is a a beginning of a love story & the war. It is a proof how bad shit in life can cause good things.

Are you still together?

PS

In Yugoslavia we had a very similar situation with our civil war in the 90s. Fortunately, I was just a kid so I don't remember much but many (innocent) people died for nothing cause we could also avoid the war but that was not the interest of the internal separatists nor the external influencers who supported the opposite sides just to maintain the bullshit war to make profit on our death & misery. They let us destroy each others acting helpers while selling us guns to be able to enslave us with bank credits later on. Our betraying governments worked against us telling lies constantly & selling our lands, factories & human capital/resources. Today, all the countries of ex-Yugoslavia are completely privatized, sold out to the foreign "investors", read mafia, our people working worse jobs in Western Europe & domestic criminals ruling our countries.

Never trust no politician, no media, no banks & no public services!
(Sometimes there can be some real good people found, but rarely.)

Keep yourself safe & make peace & love always! Good luck!