I would hope I would be remembered by my actions... when I was a teenager, I used to tell my friends that I wanted to be cremated, then they could smoke me... I digress...
You know already how I feel, and certainly, send nothing but love, healing, and light...
When I have experienced these moments in life... and they have been many, I listen to this song by Alter Bridge...
I hope it helps you, as much as it has for me, my dear friend...