First they have to learn how to be a good and responsible person. A status of a mother and a wfe is later to be acquired; and is indeed a recipe for disaster if they have no clue what they're doing and who they are. Look at all those oppressed women in islamic culture, those poor ladies can't and aren't allowed to even think for themselves. They're so low regarded in society, @coretan.alsara , that their opinion or testimony is irrelevant. A testimony of a man equals of a testimony of two women. So yeah, think for yourself, empower yourself and don't get crazy ;) .