4 Wonderful things about getting married young.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

I married my best friend when I was 18. We are living an adventure that I wouldn't trade for anything. 


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1. You get to grow up together. 

We met when I was 12. When I was 13 and he was 16 he told me he liked me and wanted to get to know me. We became instant best friends. We waited until we could date when I was 16 and then we got married when I was 18. We grew up together, are still growing up together. We have learned so many life lessons side by side and we have a deep understanding of each other from witnessing each other's maturing through the years. 


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2. You have each other for support in successes and failures.

I am so thankful that I have had my husband's support through everything. He helps me and supports me, no matter what. And because we know each other so well, he knows how to congratulate my successes or encourage me through my failures. 


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3. You know each other deeply.

Since we have been together so long, we have a deeply rooted understanding of each other. We share most of life's important memories together and we are connected by time and experience. 


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4. You have more time for happily-ever-after.

When we knew we were ready to get married after having spent years together, we knew there was no reason to wait. We started our story early and now we have more time to live out our dreams together. We are constantly enjoying life together. We are partners in everything and I wouldn't trade sharing my life with him for one second! Our current adventure is moving and waiting for baby #2! 


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Marriage at a young age worked for me. It has been part of my life story. But I understand that it isn't for everyone. My aunt didn't even meet her husband until she was 27, and that worked for her! There aren't rules for the right or wrong time to get married. You have to do what is right for you!


Blessings!



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I love this!! Love your story and totally agree with us:)

Thank you, lovely! 💙

Awesome lvoe story :), how you cope up with routine in your life?

Thanks! We try to keep up with life the best we can!

I love your story! My husband and I met when I was 27, but I wish I would of met him when we were younger!

Once you find the one...somehow you just know! I'll always be glad I got married when I did. :)

Same here! 💙

Always good to hear some great story of life!
I hope that happiness will never leave you :)

Thank you! 😁

These are definitely my top 4 reasons.
Like you said, it's not for everyone (see @cryptotraderx's comment. Lol), everyone has different needs an opinions, no doubt...

But for us, in our eyes? Our story is perfect.

Our story is perfect! ❤

I remember when you guys met.

It was a long time ago, huh? 😁

then the divorce comes because of not knowing each other enough and you fall in a deep depression because everything you worked for is gone.

Dayum. Sounds like someone had a bad experience.

my dad did, he had 175,000$ in 401k, all gone. never getting married, just a contract, nothing more

Perfectly understandable.

These are some great benefits! But I think it's not good for two young people to get married early. They have a life to live

Different people have different desires, different needs and different opinions. That's what keeps the world beautiful :)

Yes. You are right!

🌷Thank you @uglysweater :) This is beautiful!

beautiful written. i agree with u.

Thanks!

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Wow @uglysweater! You are one lucky lady.

Thank you! 💙

Congrats on your baby #2. Some people get married early, some not. It's really up to the couple and everyone has their own timing. I wouldn't think early marriage suit me. At that age I was too immature and still unsure about the direction of my life 🙂

Thanks!
Yes, you just have to do what is right for you!

What a lovely story! Well done:)

Thanks! 💙

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Everybody has their own cool love story! I am happy for you :D

I am 23 and would not even want to think about getting married. To me personally it feels like I need to grow up and be an adult and start having babies, haha!

I totally understand! I have sisters and friends who feel that way too! It is important to do what is right for you. 😊

Exactly. I have a friend who's about my age and has been married for a couple of years now aswell. They have a baby and a house and everything!

Bless you, @uglysweater :)

And you, girlie! 😁

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I love it! I could feel your connection with him in your words. Cheers.
I love enjoying the man I am married to.

Thank you!
Yes, I do enjoy my man, as well. I am blessed!

I got married when I was 21 and we raised 2 boys and were married for 20 years. I loved being married and I don't regret getting married young.

That's awesome! 😁

so lovely and romantic post... i like you story..

Awww such a sweet post! How long have you guys been together for?:)
People are always quick to judge but really, as long as you are happy with your decisions and both felt like you were mature enough to take this step for your lives, I dont see why we shouldnt all support it!:)

Very happy for you and best of luck with baby number 2!:) Relationships tend to get harder with kids but Im happy to see that you are still madly in love and happy with your relationship! Keep on shinning xoxoxo

We have been together 10 years. :)
Thank you! We are so excited!

Wow thats amazing!!!! :)

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. It literally moved me to tears.

I am happy and thankful to hear that you have been so blessed! :D

😄😇😄

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Lovely! Reminds me of me and my hubby. We experienced the same thing, although we only got married after 10 years. We met when I was 16 (hubby 17) and got together when I was 18. Got married 10 years later. Gosh, time flies! Have a great day!

That's beautiful! ❤